The Challenge of Working with MS
Introduction
It’s not so long ago that a diagnosis of MS led your doctor to tell you to quit work and go home and rest. Many people did this, but they got bored.
MS affects people in different ways. Some have a relatively mild form of MS and may never experience any symptoms which prevent them from working. Others may have to cope with varying degrees of disability from time to time, whilst some people may become severely disabled quickly. It is only a small proportion of people with MS who are so severely affected.
However, there are many reasons why people leave the workforce ranging from problems with fatigue and cognitive dysfunction to embarrassing problems such as bowel and bladder difficulties. But many people are not aware of the treatments available and the accommodations that can be made to allow them to stay “on the job”.
While well meaning friends, family and healthcare workers could be encouraging you to reduce stress and give up work, there is only a tentative link between MS and stress and the stresses of unemployment with its financial burdens are not a good solution.
So let’s start with working outside the home.
There are many benefits for an employer who supports the employee with any kind of disability
- Maximising on their investments in an employee with MS, for example by not losing prematurely the skills and experience of a well trained member of the workforce
- Avoiding potential difficulties by adopting a proactive approach to intermittent medical condition policy issues now, instead of waiting for a situation to arise
- Confirming that existing/new policies and procedures comply with current or upcoming legislation
- Capitalising on the expertise and support provided by the MS Societies
- Promoting a positive perception/image of the organisation to both employees and external audiences.
For the employee there are reasons to keep going.
- Financial security: The longer you remain in the workforce the higher you benefits are likely be if you need to leave and the longer you can pay into savings.
- Fringe benefits such as health insurance may be one of your most valuable assets.
- Your identity is often defined , at least in part, by the kind of work you do.
- A sense of self worth comes from feeling productive and contributing to your family, your community and even society as a whole. Thus voluntary work can have just the same benefit.
- Being a role model for others feels good. A model for your kids, others with disabilities and even anyone else who’s paying attention.
If you want to stay in the home there are options you can look into.
There may be many reasons why people struggle to secure employment outside of the home, and disability and ongoing illness may be one cause. Problems overcoming physical limitations, in the workplace, or employer reluctance to hire you and give you the chance to try may arise despite laws that forbid discriminating against disabled applicants. Ongoing or frequent illness may mean that you miss a lot of work, or are unable to keep up with the required working pace. Working in the comfort of your own home ensures that all areas are accessible and safe, and any specialist devices that you may need such as computer screen readers for the blind are available to you.
Some home working may involve being employed as an at home agent of a larger company, whilst others may involve you being self employed; your own boss, answerable to no one but yourself. You may have to try several different things before you find something that is suitably flexible to work for you, or that meets your other needs and your likes.
The internet is a great, big equalizer and it can work to your advantage. The internet does not care if you are disabled – it only requires that you can deliver the work you promise.
Self employment can start very easily and if you are using social networks like Twitter and Facebook you will have a readymade audience to work with. Be careful not to sign up with some of the called “gurus” who claim you can make huge amounts of money in very little time. There is no such thing as a free lunch but by working consistently you can achieve your goals.
Look into things like MY AUTO CASH GENERATOR by Joey Smith and Devon Brown or investigate scriptlance.com or elance.com article writers, web designers, software programmers, audio transcriptionist, proofreaders, video creators, et cetera are all used by these companies. Or check out a directory site like wahcheck.com . Start advertising yourself with a free advertiusing service. There is no end of wasy to keep the costs down.
There is no requirement to stick to only one option you can do as many as you like but don’t dilute your focus by trying to do too many.
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Hi Kath
Great to see you making important information available for people with MS. My synthesis of the literature has led me to the perhaps surprising conclusion that it is possible not only to stay well after a diagnosis of MS, but also to recover considerably, even if one has disability. My website http://www.takingcontrolofmultiplesclerosis.org summarises the available medical literature, and there are now thousands of people choosing to live this ultra-healthy lifestyle that promotes recovery from MS.
Be well
George
Twitter: kathAVFM
said:
Hi George
While I agree that there are clearly things that can be done to help and perhaps, in the case of diet, inprove the situation, I have alwyas avoided things which claim to present a “cure”. However, I do think everyone should have the chance to form their own opinion and I so I have happily “approved” your comment.
Twitter: KarenCV
said:
Hi, Kathy,
I just found your site on Twitter. I was diagnosed with MS in 2000 at which time I had to stop work in the accounting field.
I have (had) a type A personality, but just couldn’t continue working. Prior to stopping, it was rough.
So, I’m not choosing to stay at home, I would love to have the option.
As far as strategies to help yourself I go for acupuncture which has helped, but not to the point of knowing day to day whether I’ll have the energy and strength to go to work.
Diet also does help as does avoiding sugar and processed foods – a hard chore living in America.
Working at home is an option, as long as I don’t have strict deadline commitments. Building an online presence is challenging, though.
I think providing information for this tricky disease is commendable. Thanks.
Karen Cioffi´s last blog ..Panic Attacks and Multiple Sclerosis
Twitter: kathAVFM
said:
Hi Karen
You seem to be going through exactly what I did/do but obviously so long as you avoid strict deadlines you can build a new life.
I love your website and will be spending some more time on it,
Well done for rising to the challenge
Twitter: KarenCV
said:
Hi, Kathy, I’m glad you like the site. It’s relatively new.
I like George’s site, but I also agree that there isn’t a one formula works for all way of handling this illness. And, from my experience and research, there is no cure for MS, although there are strategies you can use to help yourself.
Karen Cioffi´s last blog ..Panic Attacks and Multiple Sclerosis