My first introduction to a disability scooter was in the local mall where I was entitled to free use of one while using the mall. A bit scary, what if I meet people I know, what if I can’t drive it, how will it feel to be lower than everybody, what if I want to leave it outside a shop

Well I have to say this all disappeared into the ether when I took the step of taking my 10 and 8 year old boys with me the first time. They were THRILLED and even though I had to say it wasn’t for them to play on they delighted in my ability to shoot down the mall aisles faster than ever before( they liked to race me) and be able to carry their bags. Most of all I could get home after a shopping trip without being completely wiped out. They seemed unable to see any downside. I was suddenly a really cool mom. I imagine if they were teenagers it wouldn’t be the same.

Anyway this unexpected notoriety filled me with confidence and I stopped caring what people would think. I have since met a lot of people while using my “mall scooter” and at least one is someone who badly needs to use one but hasn’t got over the stigma of it all. My kids gave me this freedom with their unconditional positive regard and they were young enough to think nothing Mom does could be embarrassing. The oldest is now 13 and he STILL thinks it’s ok in fact prefers me to use one so I don’t get worn out.

If you’re choosing a scooter take your child with you and see it through their eyes!

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